Stay in a bad marriage is considerably worse than divorce.

There are great relationships (not necessarily marriage). Believe in it. I got out when my boys are 7 and 4. We (my boys and I) went through some challenges and now we are all happy with a new member who has been with us for 10 years. We all deserve to be happy. Our children need to know that they might make a wrong choice in their lives too but they should not stick with their wrong choice.