谢谢阿月。刚用心干了点活儿，来晚了。

Michael Jackson 在他Oxford University Union speech 里说到：

“If you enter this world knowing you are loved and you leave this world knowing the same, then everything that happens in between can he dealt with.”

他也说要孩子们爱父母。所以他自己其实是在实践另一种命运：not (unconditionally) loved when he enter the world， dealt with everything that happens in between yet still leave this world triumphantly:)))