Not agreed. Husband can be changed too since he is not supportiv

But I agreed it's not a good idea to change both at the same time. My advice is to quit your job first. Take a break, and then go find another job. If by the time you find another job your hu*****and is still like this, dump him too.

I hate those pressing hu*****ands. It's fine if he wats to be ambitious himself, but don't press your wife to be the same. Jesus!