WHENPOLLEDACROSSTHENATIONASTO:"WhatBringsHAPPINESS?"TheseEIGHTitemswerelistedasNOTbeingofmajorimportancetomaintaininglastinghappiness(theEightDelusionalDesiresforProsperity):WealthPhysicalappearanceAgePower/InfluenceChildrenPossessionsFameEducationTheseEIGHTitemsWERElistedasofmajorimportancetomaintaininglastinghappiness(theEightKeystoHappiness):Afeelingofbeingincontrolofone'slifeandone'schoices.Be...[
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Whatdomenwant(fromwomen)?Womenhavebeentryingtoanswerthisquestionforages,andshelvesofself-helpbookstrytoresolvethedifferencesbetweenmenandwomenbyconsideringwe'refromdifferentplanets.Recently,indiscussingthenatureofhumanitywithaclosefriend,Ipointedoutthe"M"hishandmadewhenhewrinkledupthepalmofhishand.InseeingthishejokinglycametotheconclusionthatmenreallyAREfromMars!Thatideaworkedfine,untila...[
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Howcanyouknowtheperson
youaredatingisTHEONE?(ZT)Recently,afriendofminetoldmesheboughtapopularmagazinetargetingyoungerwomenthathadtheheadline"IsHeReallyTheOne?"Shesaiditwasthereasonsheboughtthemagazine,ratherthantheflashyarticletheyhadonanewsexpositionorthearticleonhowtoimpresshimoverThanksgiving.Ofcourse,beingcuriousabouthowthisparticularmagazinemighthaveansweredthequestion"IsHe...[
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Whatdowomenwant?
Theepicstruggleofmankindtofigureouttheinnerworkingsofwomenisagesold.EvenSigmundFreud,themasterofmodernpsychology,diedtryingtofigureoutwomen.Itisn'teasy.
Ihadafriendoncejokewithmethat"menmostlywantsex,womanwanttherighttobehypocritical,yetcallmenontheirinconsistencies."Yikes.Nowondermenandwomenhavestrugglesgettingalong!Onereasonwhyunderstandingwomenisn'tsuchaneasythingi...[
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Howcanyouknowtheperson
youaredatingisTHEONE?(ZT)Recently,afriendofminetoldmesheboughtapopularmagazinetargetingyoungerwomenthathadtheheadline"IsHeReallyTheOne?"Shesaiditwasthereasonsheboughtthemagazine,ratherthantheflashyarticletheyhadonanewsexpositionorthearticleonhowtoimpresshimoverThanksgiving.Ofcourse,beingcuriousabouthowthisparticularmagazinemighthaveansweredthequestion"IsHeReallyTheOne?",...[
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Thekeydifferencesbetweencheapandfrugalare:
Cheapiswhenyoubuytheleastexpensiveitemoffered,regardlessofthequality,evenwhenyoucanaffordtopaymore.Frugaliswhenyouhavemeans,butaresmartenoughtoshoparoundforthebestprice.Frugalpeopleknowtheretailpricesofjustabouteverythingandknowwhere,whenandhowtogetthebestprice.Cheaplookscheap;frugallooksfullprice.Cheapissettlingforwhatcoststheleast;frugalispayin...[
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ImportingPetstoChina(ZT)
Paperwork
BringingapetintoChina,isactuallyeasierinmostcasesthangettingthepetoutofyourowncountry.Thereversehoweverdependsalotonyourcountriescustomslaws.Somecountriesallowyoutotakeyourpetout,butnotbackinagain!
Checkwithyourrelevantgovernmentdepartmentbeforeyougo.
TobringapetintoChinayouneed2certificates;aVaccinationCertification(whichmaybeconsistofmultiplevac...[
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IfYouLoveSomebody
Ialwaysthoughttheoriginalsayingwas,"Ifyoulovesomething,setitfree.Ifitdoesn'tcomebacktoyou,itwasn'tyourstobeginwith."
However,forthepurposesofthistest,let'susetheproposedversion.Inwhichcategorydo*you*fall?
"TheOldVersion"
Ifyoulovesomebody,Setherfree...
Ifshecomesback,she'syours,
Ifshedoesn't,sheneverwas....
"TheNewVersions"...[
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平日里读文学城中博客文章,每每有感同身受,或血脉迸张,或泪眼婆娑。如今闲暇,也小试身手,以抒胸臆。更兼以文会友,广结善缘。以这首杨万里的开“博”,恰到好处。
小 池杨万里
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