Currently, she is in everyone's life but her own. She needs to get out of other people's lives and focus on her responsibility to herself.
This must be a childhood reflex, taking care of everybody else to get the approval from parents. She still feels safe when trying to please everyone.
She is invading her child's space. As a result, he does not have any sense of responsibility.
She needs to take care of her self first. Others should be happy if they truly love her, or they just want to use her.
She needs to claim her true self, no one else can do it for her. It takes courage.