You have done your best

回答: 无奈blhw722020-06-09 08:35:30

 

It may not be enough, but it is the best you can do.

Your feeling of guilt may stem from your unwillingness to tell yourself that you have fulfilled your responsibility as a daughter.  This may also be a result of that your mother has been guilt-tripping you since you were young because that is something a controlling person would do.  You have been conditioned to feel guilty and inadequate no matter how much you had done.

So, to feel better, if that's what you want, tell yourself you have done more than enough.  Your responsibilities to yourself and your family come first.

 

 

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Thank you. Not trying to defend my parents, I do understand wher -blhw72- 给 blhw72 发送悄悄话 blhw72 的博客首页 (341 bytes) () 06/09/2020 postreply 17:53:26

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