It should be pretty easy, like you said. :) thanks again.
1. It is hard to find the balance.
2. White women have always envied us for not having to shave. When my daughter was little, I never thought she would have the same problem. We grew up in china without shaving. No one said we would have to shave the underarms. of course, I don;t remember wearing sleeveless back then. Seeing my kid having to shave arms and legs also seems daunting to me.
I like what you told me. I will take it easy.