She dated a guy who promised her he was going to divorce. He is a VP somewhere I do not remember. My gf waited for 3 years then gave up. He is super generous. Then they got back together recently. The guy finally divorced after his youngest one went to college and left home. I have a feeling he will divorce. It is just a matter of time. He can not give you the highest priority at this time because he has a 10 year old. After a few more years his girl can hang out with her own friends and will not spend much time around parents. you are going to be his number one priority. Are you willing to wait and be the number two on the list for now.