Yes,he downpaid 45% of the house value and I did 5%

We had separate bank account. The rental income is mine. I cover all the utility cost around the house. If we go to chinese grocery I pay for the grocery bill. If we go to other grocery he pays for it. He actually doesnt care at all. When we bought the house I prefer we each own 50%. If he dies early I keep 50% and give his family 50%. But he prefers joined tenant which means if I die everyting belong to him. If he dies everything belongs to me. I prefer I could leave 50% to my parents and my brother if I die earlier than him lol..

Again, he and I are best friends for 6 years before we started dating so we know and trust each other a lot.
Trust is important in a relationship. I do not recommend be too calculating in a relationship. It could make things worse.

I can not tell him everything but it is not because I do not trust him. It is because he would strongly go against my investment strategy. And I like my investment freedom. So I have to keep my savings for other investments. He makes a little more than I do but he is not willing to take any risk on investments.
I will have to let him know one day but only after I could prove to him that my investment generates a lot more profits.

Trust takes time. So do not start out calculating. Relationship will grow and it will eventually get there.
 

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