If you can afford to wait

Since you aready have a child, do you plan to have more kids? If you are not planning to have more kids, you are not in a hurry to get married, and it's better to wait until you met someone you are totally happy with.

It's a hard decision because nobody knows the future.

Regarding physical intimacy, it's better to wait until the guy takes the inititive. Or if you feel the strong attrication to one of them, then give some hint to that guy. I would recommend both agree to exclusive relationship, meaning neither one of you will date other people. But this may not be good for you since you think you have not found the right guy. Also it's for your protection to make sure he is safe, I mean no STD.

Just be sure that you are ready to take this step?

In the meantime, enjoy your dating. It is more exciting.

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• Thank you! -dellcomputer- ♀ (207 bytes) () 12/11/2006 postreply 06:34:33