2boys and 1 girls

小的两个 ，一个刚６岁，一个 ３岁半。３岁半的勇猛能跟６岁打平手。 从小的３岁，我开始 ask them if there are better ways then fighting to result it. At the beginning, both screamed "no". I said OK. As long as you do not send other to hospital, you can fight. I took them to living room and said 开打. 我在一边看书。两人打到停各自哭， then I asked them if you already resulted your conflicts. Most time no answer. 各自继续哭. 我会跟６岁讲 if you can find a way that both of you can accept. Recently, I saw that my 6 years old purposed different ways quite often to 3 year old when they started to have arguments.