too few information to make a fair judgement

on the issue mentioned below. Anyway, the girl should express her feeling to her boyfriend and may ask for going to a different restaurant or ordering some different foods. Putting it in my own shoes, I will certainl respect our future daugther-in-law's feeling when making food for them. At least one can say, that mother does not respect the girl too much, if no other offering is provided to help her.