I use oposite way to boost my kid's confidence

I let my kids face the reality. I explained my kids why chinese people are looked down by the white -- show him how dirty and ugly of the place where chinese live,weak chinese man due to lack of excecise and good nutrition. And tell him if you want to be repected you must performance better than white people just like Japanese, beat white kids in academically and phiscally by studing hard and doing excercise. I often mind my kids that you can win white people just like me-- I earn 2 times more money than average white man and on top 10%.