Whatever you plan to do,

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回答: 休学一年?接着聊2019-01-31 10:09:31

give this a try.

His brain may be wired differently.  You said that he does not like to follow rules.  It may not be that he understands the rules and thinks his way is better.  Rather, he has difficulty comprehending the rules.  The same may be true when interacting with people.  His degree of understanding what others want may be lacking to a point that prevents meaningful engagement.

So, is there something that transcends both the normal rules and his own way of thinking so that the two can be bridged?

The Bible is the greatest book ever written.  It contains wisdom beyound any religion that tries to interpret it.  This is not trying to proselytize since the book itself is not a religion.  There are children's versions.  You can find one that fits his reading level, and some of them can be a challenge just for reading purposes.

The hope is that he finds an anchor for his thoughts that is closer to reality.

This is not to be a substitute for anything you plan to do with him.  The cost is nearly nothing but some time, one story a day.  It may not solve the problem.  But it will help him find his footing in this world.

 

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也有可能在家自由惯了父母言听计从在外边有挫折感 -julie116- 给 julie116 发送悄悄话 julie116 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/31/2019 postreply 15:58:45

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