Recommend book "You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conv

Extremely worth reading.

Learning from the boook"

In order to get respect from either men are women, when talking to men, should show more confidence, or bossy, not inclined to ask the opinion, just simply showing your logic and reasons, in one word, showing Independence. Talking to woman, you should put yourself in equally position, ask their feeling, their opinion, in one word, showing connection.