let me answer you.

I am not beautiful. it is "so so" looking even though my parents thought me beautiful.of course parents are always thinking the kids are the best.

He is good, not have 有身份,好工作,高学历, at that time, he was just a student pursuing his ph.d. of course his parents especially his mom thinks he is the best. I am not surprised, mom always thinks son is the best.

even though I am not as exllent as him, but I was still a superb student in my college and role model in my family. both of us are very good in its own career. as I said, i don't have a relationship with anybody else before, (focus on study, don't have time and interest with love, also I think I have high standard, I don't other persons in my college). I think he is in the same situation. I love him since I think he is good enough for me and that is my first love, he also think I am perfect for him. acutally in someway, we are similar to each other, not focus on each other looking, but more concentrate the interior. this is why we got married. also he has a good temper, I think he can tolerate me.