如果另一半和你想法不一致
In my household, my husband would let me making decision. I would think it is love and trust he has in me.
I do think many of us from mainland are "Nu han zhi". I take calculated risks, and once used up all the funding except $3k left in the bank for food. My husband went along with my decision without much comments. I was under tramendous pressure myself doubting if I made the right decision.