是很幸运 :)

We both travelled alone on occasions. He would arranged to have flowers sent to my office and to have friends taking me out for dinner on weekends. He did not like being away alone, called every night.

On the other hand, each time when we travel together, inevitably we would have some silly fights. Last Sept on our 2nd last day in Paris, we went to Louvre for the whole day. He wanted to leave at 6pm to have a good dinner, I wanted to stay thru 9pm as it was Wed the late night. Not only we could not compromise, he was so silly to get his passport from me - so in case I disappeared, he could still fly home on schedule. Given to other women, they may get really really upset. Me, I couldn't care less such childish behavior. Oh, he remembered his passport, but not the cash. Good thing he had his credit card with him. He took off. I stayed. We know each other too well. Hehehe.

When I travelled by myself, I tended to bump up with interesting characters - mostly the "intellectual type" - we could have a meal, or a tea/coffee then said goodbye without much feeling in my heart. These were interesting encounters, but no way better than what I already have. :)

Only when there is some lacking in one's marriage, that one can be tempted. However, it takes efforts to build a marriage and keep it in tiptop form. :)