As long as you treat others, including your family, as good as you treat youself, you should not feel any guilty.
Unreasonable request should be refused. Your parents are quite old already. You will have more than enough chances to do your 孝顺 years ahead when they can't walk and feed by themself, get sick... They will know what they really need and how well you treat them.
It may be easy for me to say so because my parents never as for any thing. However, my mother is over 80 and had strokes. I just spent my whole China visit three months ago to look after her, except two days for shopping.
Unreasonable request should be refused. Your parents are quite old already. You will have more than enough chances to do your 孝顺 years ahead when they can't walk and feed by themself, get sick... They will know what they really need and how well you treat them.
It may be easy for me to say so because my parents never as for any thing. However, my mother is over 80 and had strokes. I just spent my whole China visit three months ago to look after her, except two days for shopping.
