i guess, parents love children, they don't want to push their children. just like how you love your children. but in China, people or neighbors compare to eath other, make your parents very stressful, and want to be fancy too.
mengxu, in the forum, my impression is: you are a nice girl. so i would imagine your parents will be nice people too. talk to them more in details. and see what is the result.
the part that you can not afford, you can not afford. you are normal human being too.