Dont u feel the urge when you are enjoying something,

be it a nice scenery, a good meal, a great show/movie/tv probram, you wish your significant other, and your children, are with you to share the moment?

If they were not, wouldn't you wish sometime in the future you could introduce to them the things to hope they would have the same enjoyment you have?

It is the SHARING, Sharing with the people that matter the most in your life.

If this is difficult to grasp, then no wonder folks have so much need to dig in their old memories than cherish their present.