一件事,可以做,可以不做,都好。 Therefore 做事的主因: enjoy the process
结果不重要,但对于我个人希望看到好结果,他人有各种不同的advice.
我的体会是:可以听取各方意见,但 trust your own judgement 。
别人不在自己shoes 给出的建议往往片面。'not knowing the problem. it is easy to give answer'。no one really what is good for you. Even social science not real science.
而且no one really know what happen in future. 所以trust 自己的直觉 and nature flow 可能更好。更体会宇宙的synchronicity 我个人经验如此。
然后take easy and enjoy... flexible. you can change things later.
trust inner guidance.因为只有它和divine 接壤。
make decsion and do things when one's heart is very quiet -- more connect with divine wisdom
let go various noise. inner wisdom 会慢慢加强,life 会越来越easy & flow