我没有小孩，但我觉得我有一点

可比性。今年BF辞职，养了他一年，他的mortgage,insurance,一切开销，也有五万了。我也是工薪，什么财都没发过。

但我绝对不苦自己，就活一辈子，我对自己不好还指望谁对我好呀。只要max了401K，on track for retirement plan, 剩下钱都花自己身上。

about 400/mo for working out, gym, trainer etc

about 300 for facial, massage, mani/pedi

variable amount for clothing purchases, depends on the month.

The way I see it, I live once, I'm young once, if I don't money on myself now, I won't be able to enjoy the money when I get old, so what's the point? This is living right?