what about this, am I 犯贱 too?

Many years ago, I split with my boyfriend. I do not regret we split but regret the  way I did it, it was hurtful. I heard he was single for a long time, but eventually got married and has two children. Recently I had a chance exchanging couple of e-mails with him about job. In the end of the discussion about job, I wrote the following:

"It was nice talking to you after all these years.
I find some confort in knowing you move on with your life with peace.
I was young and stupid, did not know what I did meant to other people.
  
Enjoy and send my greetings to your wife and children."

He did not answer.

Am I 犯贱? Is he still angry with me? I wish he could tell me he forgive me by now.:( 

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• 人能承认自己的错误是要很大的勇气的。很佩服你这点 -月影如钩- ♀ (60 bytes) () 12/10/2010 postreply 10:54:00

• 绝对没有。让别人感觉受尊重，哪怕委屈自己一点是礼貌和美德。 -pink_rose- ♀ (25 bytes) () 12/10/2010 postreply 11:19:42

• 我觉得也是。在这种情况下，沉默是可以理解的。 -longhand- ♂ (129 bytes) () 12/10/2010 postreply 11:38:48

• I am the one who ran away, does he still need to worry about the -ysil- ♀ (235 bytes) () 12/10/2010 postreply 14:48:05

• need to worry about the 1st scenarion? -ysil- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/10/2010 postreply 14:48:50

• No need to worry. He might just need some space -pink_rose- ♀ (69 bytes) () 12/10/2010 postreply 14:57:30

• What did you do to hurt him? -longhand- ♂ (0 bytes) () 12/10/2010 postreply 11:26:19

• I was not nice to him. -ysil- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/10/2010 postreply 13:48:00

• That does not mean "hurt." You might do something worse than "n -longhand- ♂ (0 bytes) () 12/10/2010 postreply 20:28:22

• let me add a few -180- ♂ (438 bytes) () 12/10/2010 postreply 17:46:09