不过我想你还是会很快bounce back的。
我以前常常不出声的问一个问题“will you still love me tomorrow。”。 追求永恒,strong need for more and more love or attention, 会给人无穷无尽的痛苦。
我觉得人生中很重要的一种素质是: willingness to let it go. Anyone 的如烟人生讲的很透彻了。
最后一首小诗:
Someday you will realize
what you mean to me.
Someday you will look into my eyes
and know that's where you want to be.
But someday may come too late;
I can't play your game forever.
Someday I'll get sick of having to wait
and we'll miss our chance to be together.
I know that you've been hurt before
I have been there myself.
It's not the love that makes your heart sore
it's keeping your heart to yourself.
I know that you are just afraid;
you can't stand to be hurt again.
But your life is what you have made
through your family and your friends.
I don't need to be with you right now
I don't need to be with you at all.
But I would like to know how
I'm supposed to break my hearts fall.
Sometimes I feel like you don't care
like you would be the same without me.
Sometimes I feel like you're not there
and that's how you want it to be.
Someday you'll look back on what we once had
and you'll wish for it to be there.
You'll end up heartbroken and sad
and then you'll finally care.
I wish you could see it here and now
and sometimes I think you do.
I think you just don't know how
to avoid getting hurt by me too.
I wish there were a way I could show you
that getting hurt's not always part of the deal.
I wish that you would give me a chance too;
let me show you exactly how I feel.
You make me feel like something is wrong with me
something that maybe I'm just too blind to see.
But from what you have said I'm exactly
what you want me to be.