with the same guy /career, or with a new one, let's all have better times in the future. :)
what's gone is gone. it's history and you'd better off not be influenced by it. whether it was good or bad, your future (my future, and everyone's) should always be better.
live in the present, or even, live with expectations of a better future, is better than stuck in the past. so much better! and you will definitely do this effortlessly, since you will have a baby to raise! you've got to think a lot about future! :) meanwhile, enjoy the present too. leave the past to historians. :D