Hikikomori

来源: 脱袜子 2017-10-03 07:11:32 [] [博客] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 本文已被阅读: 次 (2012 bytes)

昨晚看的这个纪录片,是关于Hikikomori,第一次听到这个名词。这是一种似乎是日本特有的社会问题。

 

In Japan, a million young men have shut the door on real life. Almost one man in ten in his late teens and early twenties is refusing to leave his home – many do not leave their bedrooms for years on end. It is a lost generation. Many millions of families are devastated. But they mostly suffer in silence, unable to understand the plight of their children. The first western psychologist to study the problem describes the condition as “an epidemic” sweeping Japan. It is called hikikomori by the Japanese – meaning “social withdrawal”. Yet little is known about the problem and parents of sufferers prefer to hide their pain rather than seek help. Phil Rees' film discovers the hidden pain that is scarring Japan’s youth. We meet the mother of a 17-year old boy who took over the kitchen of the family home. Her son has refused to leave the kitchen and has not spoken to outsiders for four years. Members of his own family rarely see him. He does not bath and lives surrounded by a mound of garbage, which spills from the kitchen into the hallway. The family have been forced to cook meals on a makeshift camping stove. Another case revealed by the programme is that of a boy who has locked himself in his bedroom for four years. Throughout these years, his mother – who sleeps in the next room – has not seen her son. She only knows that he is alive because she sometimes hears the creaking of floorboards. Some can remain in their bedrooms for twenty years before the family seek outside help.

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他们吃喝拉撒怎么办?在房间里上网玩游戏吗? -青衫依旧- 给 青衫依旧 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 10/03/2017 postreply 07:32:58

我们小的时候,居委包括介绍对象,那时还有什么老大难, 谁家不娶不嫁的早让同事,居委会都想办法解决 -爱上网- 给 爱上网 发送悄悄话 (47 bytes) () 10/03/2017 postreply 07:54:00

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这种极端scenario应该是很小的比例吧? -猫狗大战- 给 猫狗大战 发送悄悄话 猫狗大战 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/03/2017 postreply 08:01:56

好像比例不小,片子说100万 -脱袜子- 给 脱袜子 发送悄悄话 脱袜子 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/03/2017 postreply 08:19:21

耸人听闻,博眼球,文学城的新闻都是故事会体的 -爱上网- 给 爱上网 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 10/03/2017 postreply 08:32:48

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中国甚至某些海外华人家庭,这种孩子越来越多 -好吃狗- 给 好吃狗 发送悄悄话 好吃狗 的博客首页 (47 bytes) () 10/03/2017 postreply 08:08:10

我也是这么觉得 -脱袜子- 给 脱袜子 发送悄悄话 脱袜子 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/03/2017 postreply 08:19:46

国内这种人也是很多的,饿了叫外卖,整月的不下楼 -早晨从中午开始- 给 早晨从中午开始 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 10/03/2017 postreply 08:55:13

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哈哈哈哈哈啊哈 , -爱上网- 给 爱上网 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 10/03/2017 postreply 09:16:35

哈哈,油菜~~~ -猫狗大战- 给 猫狗大战 发送悄悄话 猫狗大战 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/03/2017 postreply 10:15:10

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比较有意思的是 -脱袜子- 给 脱袜子 发送悄悄话 脱袜子 的博客首页 (98 bytes) () 10/03/2017 postreply 09:06:10

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