回复：看了你的故事，真得觉得很难受。

I think moving out for a while is a good idea.

Or, you can do a calculation with your hu*****and to see how much for him to pay if divorce. First, there is child support calculator, I put your hu*****and's net income as $14000 per month, yours $7000 per month, he needs to pay you $2100 per month for child support if you divorce if in CA. Second, you pay your apartment, he pays his [house]. Less tax deduction for him also. Anyway, it is always more expensive to divorce and let the number persuade him.

If he does not want to you to leave, make sure he agrees to pay at least 2/3 of the house expense.

If I were you, I probably left him already. I won't want to live with somebody who makes my life miserable. Kids do not do well in a house that mom is not happy.