to cecillia, not many sentences:

u brought that "divorce" topic here and I would like to add some of my comments.

Like I said, I truly do not understand why a mother obtaining the children during divorce is losing anything. For the parents in divorce I know, parents from both sides want to have more time to stay with their children and they even want to sacrifice some money/stock/house to do it. I guess your opinion regarding a father, or a man, forms from your experience or your observation. I just want add one more sentence here: the love from a father is not any less/smaller than the love from a mother.