his mom's close friend borrowed 10k from us

来源: twinlobster 2012-12-11 07:58:44 [] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 本文已被阅读: 次 (1178 bytes)

That is the money from our joint saving. It has been 2 and half years. They don't even mention it any more. I asked him to ask about it, since we are buying a small condo for ourselves now. But my hu*****and said it is too hard for him to start that conversation. They are close friends for years. They are like family. He needs to wait for opportunity to ask for money, but most likely there is no such opportunity, so I should expect that money at all. If I insist to have that money, or if I dare to talk to them directly for the money, he will divorce me because he thinks I am such cold blood person to ask money back from poor people.

This friend is just like my mother in law, poor and waste money without second thought. This friend shows off on facebook all the time (dinner at nice restaurant, trip to Japan, LV bag).

I said she lives a lux life, but can't return our money? My hu*****and said she is poor, she just treat herself every now and then. We should not jude people. I said I don't have interest in her life, I just like her return my money.

I was so stupid to lend that money. I won't lend one penny to them any more.

 

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唉哟,你真是书呆子,你一下纠缠这么多事,你知道你到底要做什么达什么目的么? -老树发芽- 给 老树发芽 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 08:06:24

I know. I just sunddenly wake up and realize that -twinlobster- 给 twinlobster 发送悄悄话 (273 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 08:13:01

你这些居高临下的想法。。。。。看样子你是不太好处。 -老树发芽- 给 老树发芽 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 09:13:53

sorry I mispresent myself -twinlobster- 给 twinlobster 发送悄悄话 (389 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 09:23:32

理解你的郁闷和难处!但是先把事情放一下,冷静下,不要 -老树发芽- 给 老树发芽 发送悄悄话 (34 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 09:48:22

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