Easy, everybody orders a dish, then share(with serving

spoon or serving chopsticks, of course), and i pay the bill.  That's how I do whever eat out with chinese. In fact, i'm hosting a dinner with some chinese friends in a restaurant tonight. hehe...:))

If i host a dinner at home, i'll ask input from everyone ahead of time. If the kid dosen't like my cooking, be my guest, cook for yourself. Don't like the cloth i picked for you? Go shop for yourself!

That way, save my time and everyone is happier, haha.