Do not feel invalidated.

 

When you desire their validation, it's a burden you place on them and you look and sound passive.

Act like you have no needs and focus on what you can do to satisfy their needs by asking questions that showcase your strong suit, rather than passively waiting to be questioned.

They probably used their "behavior" questions as the first block for you to "clear".

No one likes to be disrespected. But your response is entirely under your control. How you respond is telling.