Not all 大陆娃娃 being treated like a prisoner (抽得我浑身的血条).
I never even remember dad ever blame me, always very nice, caring and fun. Mom was scary, she only control or shouted older sis or brother. Come to youngest daughter, she was still soft, maybe too old to beat or yell any more. But my dad never beat any boy or girls, he love his kids very much.