我大概看了你的故事，我觉得你有短板（每个人都有啦），但是也有strength, 有机会升职的

你有做的不合适的，但是你的bosses 肯定也有他们做的不合适的。You don't have control over others, but you could focus on yourself. Improve your communication skills, be considerate and empathetic, and most of all, be a good team player. 学会交流，学会agree to disagree, 会有机会的。