就事论事说,这事是你的错。一错在没搞清状况(问题是所在的地区生活水平高,按他所开的工资,我们的生活将会进入入不敷出的地步),不知什么适合自己。二错在不该说的事往外说(自己没搞明白前为什么告诉老板?)。
你的老板没做错。手下人说要走了,还能指望他吗?负责任的老板都会着手准备。所以你怪老板只 barking at the wrong tree。
男子汉大豆腐,能屈能伸,无须后悔,也无须报复。
calm down, be an adult, sit down with your family, think what the best for you and your family.
如果我是你,我会1、2、3同时进行:
1、告诉老板,I made an mistake. I think it's best for me to work for you because of you are so nice, blah, blah, blah, etc... 嘴甜点不掉肉。
2、立即联系一切可能的机会;
3、跟要你的公司争取更好的待遇;
“恶毒的报复念头还是一个劲地冒出来”,乃是愚蠢的想法。一旦以身试法,万劫不覆,置父母、亲人、孩子于何地?
man up, be a man, learn from your mistake, and move on。life will be much better in next chapter if you handle it appropriately ...
good luck and best wisheds.
冒昧。