哈哈,that's all U need to say to him:

来源: qtwen 2014-05-06 10:21:28 [] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 本文已被阅读: 次 (387 bytes)
"I'd love to help U, but I'm so sorry that I'm so busy w/ such & such ..", We just need to say no in a nice way...

that is, unless you may need him to return you a favor down the road.

normally I love helping people in my work place as long as he/she is not abusive...
Helping people does not hurt us anything...


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有的人你越帮忙,他越给你事儿。 -Pink侠- 给 Pink侠 发送悄悄话 Pink侠 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/06/2014 postreply 10:25:20

That's abusive, that's why you say no with a smile -qtwen- 给 qtwen 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/06/2014 postreply 10:26:38

一开始他让我帮忙时我就是这么说的。 -Pink侠- 给 Pink侠 发送悄悄话 Pink侠 的博客首页 (105 bytes) () 05/06/2014 postreply 10:28:32

it's America, U do not have to do anything U R not comfortable -qtwen- 给 qtwen 发送悄悄话 (167 bytes) () 05/06/2014 postreply 10:32:03

我好人做了很多年,终于要 SAY NO 了。 -Pink侠- 给 Pink侠 发送悄悄话 Pink侠 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/06/2014 postreply 10:45:30

其实很多时候从别人提出要求的语气就可以知道是不是自己份内的工作。 -Pink侠- 给 Pink侠 发送悄悄话 Pink侠 的博客首页 (77 bytes) () 05/06/2014 postreply 10:48:50

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