孩子越大越需要家里有$$。Three good things for a woman to go out for work

"可是大家都说孩子越大越需要家里有人。比如放学回家可以吃点东西，休息休息，然后多搞点课外活动，也要靠家长接送。"

-- Day care can do all these kind of tasks.

"而且不趁孩子teenage前培养感情，以后说话孩子听不进去。"

-- This is not true from our experience. We sent our kids to day care from begining. They are very good with us and they listen to us.

-- Childern grow up in day care will learn how to be nice with other people, they usually have better behavior.

"你如果没必要，而且又这么难，何苦呢？"

-- Three good things for a woman to go out for work:

1) Bring more income for family or for herself, or for her kids's future education cost.

2) Overcome loneliness;

3) Increase self social value.