Think positively.

来源: 2010-01-29 10:28:40 [博客] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 本文已被阅读:
You can help her a lot and can learn a lot from her.

If you always have "起码别让他给我使坏呢" in your mind, it's much easier to prove your caution is legitimate. On the other hand, if you assume she is a friendly coworker, you'll probably find out later that you are right.