请教各位大侠：该不该放弃这份工，如果放弃该怎样处理

I started my current job six months ago. I like the job because of good salary and good location. However, I have the worst boss in this world: She did not provide detailed training,no previews files available either. She never supply all the info we need to complete tasks. She gave me wrong info at the first month so that I made mistakes, and she said that is my : communication problem.

I am the only Chinese in the company, which has more than 250 employees in Canada office. My English can not compare to others', but I believe it is fine enough for this job. My boss always tells CEO that she has to do the jobs that I am suppose to do, and whenever I ask her questions, she tells me she is doing other projects from CEO. Actually, she requires me to prepare all files for her, then she send it out to take credits.I have tolerated all these until....

She became very rude to me and keep blaming me all the time. No matter what I did, she refused it and told me to do opposite way. She never listen to me to finish a whole sentence. ( She never listen to anybody to finish one sentence except CEO)She always talks over others.She always mentions that I have communication problem. This if very hurtful..

I feel so frustrated everyday when I see her. I really want to leave this job asap.

I would like to ask everybody in the forum，do you have any suggestion to me Please. Now I am thinking about emailing CEO and HR to state all truth and my situation, or just taking a few sick days and vacations that I am entitled, and let company lay off me finally.

Waiting for your opinion. Also, please tell my honestly if my English is bad enough to have communication problem.

Millions thanks in advance!

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• I think you need some improvement -猪胖子- ♀ (76 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 16:22:47

• you mean my -norfil- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 16:26:45

• You mean my English need to improve or -Norfil- ♀ (96 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 16:29:17

• "ask her to go lunch"??--she has every right... -撅着挺好- ♂ (250 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:21:59

• 如果我把这帖里的内容email CEO , HR. 大家觉得行吗. -Norfil- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 16:31:51

• 同意. -Norfil- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:27:19

• Try to talk with her in a more soft tone, if she could laugh you -我边走边问- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:29:50

• 每天夸她十遍， erverthing you caught -我边走边问- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:32:17

• 糖衣炮弹早试过了, 而且真心实意的轰炸... 没用 :( -Norfil- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:36:54

• 把谈恋爱的高招都用上，不信她不迷恋你 -我边走边问- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:51:18

• his boss or girlfriend, i'm so confused~~ -撅着挺好- ♂ (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:54:08

• 女老板也要有chemical,俺的前女老板也这样，男老板告诉咱这个秘密， 不客气地说 -我边走边问- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:59:09

• 职坛二宝，你回来了，可想死兄弟我了。啥礼物给哥？ -眼冒金星- ♂ (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 20:47:08

• 土班长, 又需要您的高见了,请赐教阿. 真的很急 -Norfil- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 16:35:48

• Yes, prepare and talk to HR -美国老土- ♂ (215 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 21:26:45

• 回复：请教各位大侠：该不该放弃这份工，如果放弃该怎样处理 -tobebest- ♀ (285 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:07:08

• 非常感谢. -Norfil- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:12:43

• ur English is not bad.... -撅着挺好- ♂ (358 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:12:52

• 谢谢：ur English is not bad.... -Norfil- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:16:25

• 谢谢 -Norfil- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:14:43

• 这个女人对每个同事都这样, 除了老板和CFO, HR -Norfil- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:30:44

• 太好了: 给她倒卖到怡红院得了。 -Norfil- ♀ (4 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:38:22

• i'll pay her a visit then~~ -撅着挺好- ♂ (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:38:31

• I think your boss don't like you and want to freak you out. -我边走边问- ♀ (525 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:18:11

• 多谢：I think your boss don't like you and want to freak you out. -Norfil- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:22:10

• 诈弟弟， 好久不见， 这是在哪儿放光彩呀 -我边走边问- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:28:00

• 带回来几个？ 谈谈约会地感受 -我边走边问- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:34:47

• 问得好！同问：） -灰衣人- ♂ (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:36:47

• 写出来看看，跑了哪些天上人间和猪死会社？你流鼻涕眼泪的， -灰衣人- ♂ (22 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:46:41

• 好啊，楼下的边MM催着点哦。 -灰衣人- ♂ (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:52:47

• 我不催他，他会催自己， 这么美的事哪能独独自埋在心底 -我边走边问- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 18:02:51

• 哇， 正春风得意呢回味无穷呢，你可别唐突了美人，老流鼻涕的 -我边走边问- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:46:57

• 老实交待，约会的时候没有激动地晕倒？或装做晕倒样 -我边走边问- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:56:28

• 那我们晕倒 -我边走边问- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 18:03:49

• may i? i 'm so tired -撅着挺好- ♂ (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:39:47

• I am bisexsual~~ -撅着挺好- ♂ (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:45:09

• as well as my fake bra~~// we r freaking norfil out,haha~~ -撅着挺好- ♂ (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:53:04

• 是呀。norfil姐姐心情被你们说好了。：） -Norfil- ♀ (24 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 18:50:02

• his boss is hopeless, i don't think one-on-one... -撅着挺好- ♂ (158 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:31:59

• 世界真小,我4年前和你一样,90%相似度. -ranch99- ♀ (735 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:53:15

• 好贴，顶你。 -veggiedoggie- ♀ (93 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:58:17

• 呆在小城给馋的,现在回到加州,附近就有RANCH99 -ranch99- ♀ (50 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 18:02:42

• 回复：呆在小城给馋的,现在回到加州,附近就有RANCH99 -veggiedoggie- ♀ (243 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 18:08:12

• 经你一提醒,我又想起我的搬迁 -ranch99- ♀ (118 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 18:38:15

• me too -我边走边问- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 18:00:39

• 别委屈自己,在哪儿都是赚钱. -ranch99- ♀ (237 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 18:01:12

• 非常感谢：别委屈自己,在哪儿都是赚钱. -norfil- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 18:40:09

• 忘了提一招 -ranch99- ♀ (162 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 19:37:10

• Don't argue, just listen, and nod nod -man40- ♂ (211 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 18:14:03

• NO, -ranch99- ♀ (43 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 18:39:35

• 谢谢回复， 但是我还是决定走了。 -Norfil- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 18:42:09

• Talk to her boss before you quit. -jill08- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 19:29:51

• This is the best among 36 options. -wxwxwxw- ♂ (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 19:56:19

• the best translation i've ever seen !! -撅着挺好- ♂ (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 20:08:58

• 第三十六计走为上. LOL -jill08- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 20:24:55

• More... -jill08- ♀ (340 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 20:28:06

• my sequence of decision making based on ur options.... -撅着挺好- ♂ (169 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 20:35:26

• You are smarter. LOL -jill08- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 20:38:46

• no, i'm coward, haha~~ -撅着挺好- ♂ (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 20:43:57

• 一面之词，不足为信。你不是很适合与她配合工作。不是单方面的。 -眼冒金星- ♂ (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 20:45:50

• u r only one remains sober in this forum. -撅着挺好- ♂ (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 20:50:05

• 如果我自己认识到还没有足够好来承受，那就正确的思维。如果 -眼冒金星- ♂ (32 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 21:07:40

• wow，老金，说得太好了 -veggiedoggie- ♀ (35 bytes) () 11/24/2009 postreply 05:10:16

• agree what you said , may I have your suggestion , please -norfil- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/24/2009 postreply 09:45:01

• honestly, do u guys all understand what he said? -撅着挺好- ♂ (0 bytes) () 11/24/2009 postreply 14:47:56

• 我觉得你的回帖有道理，能不能提些详细的建议， 谢谢 -norfil- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/24/2009 postreply 15:50:56

• 我觉得职场第一原则是:你的直接老板都是对的.即使它错了. -coolwin- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 20:47:27

• Are you a woman? I always have trouble with Woman Manager -翩翩~~- ♀ (206 bytes) () 11/24/2009 postreply 17:46:40

• You can find a way to do Internal Transfer. -翩翩~~- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/24/2009 postreply 17:49:20