Fundementally it is self assurance

e.g.'有用的建议多沟通采纳，没用的建议打个哈哈就过了，不要defensive'

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• You can say that, or inner security -Easy.Spin- ♂ (0 bytes) () 10/11/2009 postreply 18:35:46

• When you are self assured, you won't have enemy -usinca- ♀ (325 bytes) () 10/11/2009 postreply 18:57:29

• 同意这一点，ｉｆ　ｙｏｕ　ａｒｅ　ｓｔｒｏｎｇ，you won't let negativity get to you -我边走边问- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/11/2009 postreply 18:59:39

• Easy.Spin-any self assurance books that you'd recommend? Thx -usinca- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/11/2009 postreply 19:00:27

• You may want to go to a church or fellowship -Easy.Spin- ♂ (313 bytes) () 10/11/2009 postreply 19:25:35

• thanks. not very comfortable with the institution -usinca- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/11/2009 postreply 19:36:05

• Many churches are heading to the wrong direction. -Easy.Spin- ♂ (375 bytes) () 10/11/2009 postreply 19:47:52