世界上的事情其实每一个人都可以看得明白。关键是自己愿不愿,敢不敢去看真相,
去承认看到的真相。
不知该不该点透。岁月匆匆其实明白。只是不愿意承认罢了。Ignorance is bliss.
LG在国内过得滋润,左拥右抱都是美女。儿子在附近当然坏他的好事。下面所有一切都好解释了。。。
In fact, that's is OK. Everyone has the right to choose whatever life he/she thinks is best for himself. That's right given by the creator, and protected by the constitution.
The most important thing right now is to do whatever is the best for your son and yourself. And that's your right --- equally important as LG's.
Best strategy:
First of all, 千万不可心疼钱.
Find a nice daycare for your Son in US ASAP and start sending him there. He should not go back to China in your family's situation. It's not healthy staying home 24 hours a day with an old lady either.
Your Mom stays in US for another 6 months, even if that means she will have to stay illegally. It looks like redundant. But you will need her help even if your son goes to daycare.
You have 6 months to find a decent job and sort things out. Don't waste it.
In the meantime, demand LG continue sending money home to support his son.
Remember, you only have 6 months --- probably your only chance to change your life.
Good luck.