我是二十多年的Rotarian，在这里与大家分享一下，觉得是个很好的交流尺度，共勉。

知书达理，腹有诗书，心怀天下仁慈的诗人们，用这些约束应该不是太难吧？尤其是前两条，如果没有很大把握，不太确定，道听途说，最好不写，免得无意伤害了什么人，如果你想做个正人君子，淑女的话。

The Four-Way Test

The Four-Way Test is a nonpartisan and nonsectarian ethical guide for Rotarians to use for their personal and professional relationships. The test has been translated into more than 100 languages, and Rotarians recite it at club meetings: 

Of the things we think, say or do

Is it the TRUTH?
Is it FAIR to all concerned?
Will it build GOODWILL and BETTER FRIENDSHIPS?
Will it be BENEFICIAL to all concerned?

附：

【七绝】    花圃

     文/天玉之

     叶茂源光水，
     花香自有时。
     语浮芯上雹，
     壅土积天禧。