我的一个朋友(真诚的朋友)对我说,要过一种”艺术人生“,便是要在生活中艺术,爱丈夫爱孩子爱身边极小的琐事与物件,这些生活中的事物包括人生的问题与挑战才是真实的。
如何有智慧地爱丈夫爱孩子爱朋友爱亲人,爱身处的自然环境中的自然事物,爱身边极小的哪怕是一个杯子,一个盘子,爱厨房爱煮饭等等。。。
如何了解与面对自己内在里在不知不觉中留下的伤痛,忧郁,如何溶化这些伤痛忧郁为悲痛,再将这些悲痛铸造成你人生的STRENGTH 力量,让自己的生命活跃起来。这些都是”艺术人生“的课题。
下面这首诗也有一部同名的美国电影。
Splendour in the Grass
What though the radiance which was once so bright Be now for ever taken from my sight, Though nothing can bring back the hour Of splendour in the grass, of glory in the flower, We will grieve not, rather find Strength in what remains behind; In the primal sympathy Which having been must ever be; In the soothing thoughts that spring Out of human suffering; In the faith that looks through death, In years that bring the philosophic mind.