I feel that crying around same time every day means something.

I don't get upset everyday around same times unless same thing keep happening every day that really bothers me.

Plus, I feel that when fathers say 不要哄, it is because they are lazy. If you are free and baby is crying then just go take care of baby's need. Don't have to act like there is nobody around. There is many ways you can cuddle the baby. The only way I know for little baby is pick up after 1 or 2 minutes. I just remember I read that little baby don't cry for no reason. Maybe just Need to be hold to feel safe.

I would cuddle as much as I can. But not really saying cuddle all the time. Set a limit but definitely not not picking up the baby. It is a way to show love I guess. Make baby feel safe.