Adopt a 3+ year old

I would go with adoption. Giving birth to another one at your age will significantly damage your health. And you will not have too much energy to suffer the first two years.
Adopt a 4 year old. He or she could play with your current child and you also passed the baby age. At 3-4 year old they are potty trained as well. You can send the kid to childcare so not much of effort. Of course, you need to be financially stable.

Two of my friends adopted one kid and give birth to one. They both said that they feel the same to both kids. Nothing is different for the adopted one.

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• 很佩服领养和生养一视同仁的父母，我自问不知道是否铁定能做到，所以负责任地讲，在不确定之前，不想制造会伤害另一个已遭受一次创伤的孩 -信服- ♀ (66 bytes) () 07/03/2013 postreply 06:39:48