I definitely want to have a second child

For the benefits of my first child, not for myself.
We want them to look out to each other, to learn and play together.
We don't expect to get anything back from them, if they want to give us 
care when we're super super old, like over 90, it's not bad. But
most likely we'll all ended up in a nursing home, like other parents do.
So don't you expect more children would do more for mommy and dad's old ages. 
Realistic thoughts, no one would want to shoulder aging parents till death in our time.
They sure will be happier as kids to have a sister or brother. No doubt.
Risk for mother? Yeah, but very little. Seldom anyone dies from childbirth here.

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• 基本同意这个观点。自己的经验，小娃生来有姐姐，明显有安全感，大娃 -木尔- ♀ (40 bytes) () 07/02/2013 postreply 08:51:58

• 生老二，明显老了 -nebulas- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/02/2013 postreply 10:52:19

• 自然的，要是年轻了就违反自然规律了~ -奇奇^- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/02/2013 postreply 11:13:16

• 哈哈 -木尔- ♀ (59 bytes) () 07/02/2013 postreply 17:23:00

• 如果我能年轻两三岁，我肯定要第二个了。后悔当初不早要孩子啊。 -虎宝宝羊妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/03/2013 postreply 05:39:46