Feeling the emotional obstacle of child #2

I used to be so confident that having a sibling is good for my little girl until now when I suspect the second pregnancy is coming.
I feel hard to split my motherly love between two kids, especially when the first child has taken a firm space in my heart.
Yes, I know I'd be a parent who loves one child more than the other significantly. But who'll be the one?
And it's not gonna be fair to either child. My poor baby won't be happy mommy is being taken away by another child.
My mom once said that I can only devote myself to one person in a time.
There's always one most important person, a VIP to me.
It was my mother, my hubby, now my darling baby girl, the center of my attention.
How would I be able to forsake my love for her to fully attend another infant?
I have only two arms to carry one child at a time.
My baby girl would be so sad when I cannot offer her a hug.
My hu*****and would be left in a void, my mother would complaint about her 
being ignored. Everybody needs attention from me.
Not so good a perspective.

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• when the time comes, you will manage well -泥泥妈- ♀ (225 bytes) () 06/20/2013 postreply 08:27:43

• 回复：Feeling the emotional obstacle of child #2 -SillySally- ♀ (396 bytes) () 06/20/2013 postreply 12:57:12