Finally

I managed to have sex on ovulation date yesterday, without any accident.
Now, I can't wait to know about the results in 2 to 3 weeks. Usually it should work.
My hu*****and is ridiculous in trying to put off the second child birth by putting up weird conditions.
After a series of fights he sighed and caved in. Ok, let's have another child, boy or girl.
He put up ludicrous conditions like I must teach our baby girl Chinese at home.
My answer is a firmly "no". I don't have the energy to keep it up for years. Also
it's wasting time trying to teach an infant a foreign tongue after all. When all the other
kids around school don't use it she's gonna drop that second language very quickly.
Imagining future playmates give our daughter, the supposedly "foreign speaking" girl a hard time!
Why do I want my child to be treated being isolated from other children at a young age?
Baby should be allowed to choose what she likes to learn, not forced into
speaking any other language that's not relative to her life.
I think my girl is bright enough to get herself a decent life without mastering a second language or karate kicks.
I hope she'd be a real professional like an engineer, a doctor, or dentist. Just let the receptionist speak
Spanish for the office. Real expert doesn't need that kind of gimmick. 
Kids will be growing up alright, with or without our unnecessary concerns like this.
Welcome to the world, baby girl. You're a free being, an individual.
As long as you don't screw up life, you're good to go, just please don't go too far to China, India, or Congo.
That way mommy and daddy will lose you forever.

所有跟帖： 

• 有点好奇,所以礼貌地怯怯地问一句:"您是中国人吗?",应该是吧,因为 -泥泥妈- ♀ (587 bytes) () 06/10/2013 postreply 07:46:12

• 表着急，请考古！ -小小巧克力豆- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/10/2013 postreply 07:52:45

• 瞄了一眼，楼主发过的热贴全是拽的洋文写的，没心思看。 -钱- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/10/2013 postreply 16:21:54

• 一个鄙视中文的人在一个中文论坛里和一堆说中文打中文字的人用英文拽。 -蜀芊芊- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/10/2013 postreply 07:58:43

• 哈哈,芊芊妈是个直脾气 :-)) -泥泥妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/10/2013 postreply 08:01:49

• 其实有些时候我还是很婉转的。：） -蜀芊芊- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/10/2013 postreply 09:58:04

• 还确实是！！！ -sweetheart001- ♀ (59 bytes) () 06/10/2013 postreply 08:28:16

• 哈哈，严重同意！ -解语- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/10/2013 postreply 08:29:29

• 教不教中文无所谓，但这英文让我看了也很着急 -Brianmom- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/10/2013 postreply 23:03:28

• 哈哈哈哈哈，笑得不行了~~~~~~~~~~~ -稻穗儿- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/12/2013 postreply 01:03:55

• 这位妈妈一向特立独行，什么都敢說，怎么挨砖还都不受伤，继续来灌水。very odd character -瑞宝宝- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/10/2013 postreply 08:31:53

• 其实就是典型的self-centered表现 -xycheese- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/10/2013 postreply 09:06:55

• 没错，句子起头都是I,I,I...My,My,My...只知道“我”怎样怎样，其他的表达方式都不会 -扬子江酒店- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/10/2013 postreply 20:32:20

• 你家丫头要是有一天被isolated,不是因为她说中文，而是因为她有个精神病的妈给她的不良影响。 -老树发芽- ♀ (6 bytes) () 06/10/2013 postreply 09:09:53

• co：你家丫头要是有一天被isolated,不是因为她说中文，而是因为她有个精神病的妈给她的不良影响。 -我呀我呀- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/11/2013 postreply 08:54:54

• 不喜欢中文，到中文论坛拽英文，为啥不去跟美国人讨论？？ -一人有一个梦想- ♀ (50 bytes) () 06/10/2013 postreply 10:06:36

• 既然每个人的喜好都应该受尊重，哪您又何必到中文论坛来拽，试图让喜好中文的人改变？一边凉快去吧 -arui- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/10/2013 postreply 14:21:39

• 脑子有点进水！ -六月霞- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/10/2013 postreply 14:37:19

• 这人犯贱，过一阵子就犯病。 -流苏W- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/10/2013 postreply 15:04:21

• 真是个神经病妈，mother tougne 都不知道是什么还敢跟孩子讲英文，别耽误了孩子，估计孩子被你吓得不敢来了。 -Xiaosharensheng- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/10/2013 postreply 15:05:25

• 说中文就特殊了，那怎么藏那一半的中国脸呢，好可怜啊 -钱- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/10/2013 postreply 16:20:30

• Feel said for the babay already. -一月到十二月- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/10/2013 postreply 16:34:06

• 先生的想法就根本没尊重，贬低，很难想象学不学中文会是从孩子角度考虑。就没懂尊重 -chamama- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/10/2013 postreply 18:25:03

• That way mommy and daddy will lose you forever --sounds like you -Tim-Hortons- ♀ (111 bytes) () 06/10/2013 postreply 18:33:18

• 关键还是拽的是一口洋泾浜英文 -actigraph- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/10/2013 postreply 19:30:58

• 就不砸你对自己母语和自己身份的认知态度了。我女儿是双语宝宝，汉语并没有影响英语啊？ -退隐老妖- ♀ (718 bytes) () 06/10/2013 postreply 19:51:30

• 吃不消，嫁了个洋人脑子也坏掉了。起头都是I,I,I...My,My,My...英文实在不咋的,句子结构也太简单 -扬子江酒店- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/10/2013 postreply 20:30:25

• You really need to improve your English. -mister986- ♂ (0 bytes) () 06/10/2013 postreply 21:07:35

• 我孩子英文不好，但周围的孩子都很喜欢和他玩，他幼儿园的朋友都很羡慕他会说中文。 -土拨鼠拨土- ♀ (52 bytes) () 06/10/2013 postreply 22:25:22

• 其实只有内心极度自卑的人，才会轻视自己的民族，这个混血宝宝有这样的妈妈，可悲！ -yanlan- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/11/2013 postreply 00:47:56

• " I must teach our baby girl Chinese at home. "所以她必须是曾经会讲中 -wxc501- ♀ (64 bytes) () 06/11/2013 postreply 05:15:30

• 大家也不用说她了，估计她自己有过被歧视的经历才这么说的。 -sandy_samaan- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/11/2013 postreply 05:20:23

• 病得不轻。。。建议以后不要跟贴，直接忽略掉就是了。 -魔羯鼠养猫- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/11/2013 postreply 06:51:37

• 回复：Finally -人在非洲- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/11/2013 postreply 07:30:44

• 回复：你老人家是披着黄皮的美国人吧？真可怜你现在的孩子和即将出世的宝宝。你还是回学校多学点英语吧，如果你觉得它是你的母语。 -人在非洲- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/11/2013 postreply 07:34:03

• 真的有病， 我儿子在家中，德，只有出门才英语，从来没人孤立他，劝您以后别来啦，直接攒钱给你女儿以后整成白人好了。 -我呀我呀- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/11/2013 postreply 08:52:50

• 回复：Finally 好文，支持你。I think the same way. -zephyr2012- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/11/2013 postreply 09:01:54

• 估计楼主的电脑没有中文输入？ -肖蔚为- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/11/2013 postreply 09:23:37

• 我打赌你的baby girl比你觉悟高！因为女儿会象爸爸多点儿！ -H&M- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/11/2013 postreply 11:21:36

• 哇。。。 -eaglewings- ♀ (380 bytes) () 06/11/2013 postreply 18:04:28

• 好像高中都要学一门外语才能毕业吧？还没小孩读高中，还不太清楚。 -@91108- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/11/2013 postreply 19:48:02