快乐的假期结束了。回来的第一件事就是尽快作个决定是move on还是stay

which challenge wouold you take

turn a bad situation around or start fresh, but with a potentially difficult manager

background:

an offer from a relatively stable large dept. new area, familiar work, new org.many new things to learn. manager may be tough to work with. He does not appear to be one of those who would watch out for employees, after my negotiation with him for a higher title.

current position: terrible relationship with sr. management due to numerous reasons and some history with individuals. comfortable with current manager.  potentially a promotion though not fully communicated yet. will lose the promo if accept offer.group is small, unstable but with high profile.

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• very hard to make move, very hard to stay -世界无童话- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/27/2010 postreply 15:25:54

• 中国有句古话，去也兮兮，留也兮兮 -世界无童话- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/27/2010 postreply 15:30:51

• yeah. it is a tough decision. -Cathy_Bay- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/27/2010 postreply 17:25:47

• what would you do? -Cathy_Bay- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/27/2010 postreply 17:33:33

• Very hard -世界无童话- ♀ (104 bytes) () 12/27/2010 postreply 18:36:26

• add one more thing to consider -Cathy_Bay- ♀ (431 bytes) () 12/27/2010 postreply 20:44:16

• 俺咋觉得这么没学文,从没听过这句古话，去也兮兮，留也兮兮. -美国老土- ♂ (0 bytes) () 12/27/2010 postreply 20:24:07

• 我看完，云也兮兮，雾也兮兮，稀里糊涂 -胡说之- ♂ (0 bytes) () 12/27/2010 postreply 20:36:23

• 如果古人在神经兮兮的状态下有可能可怜兮兮地发出此感叹。（疯人院留言） -眼冒金星- ♂ (0 bytes) () 12/27/2010 postreply 23:37:20

• 可有放之四海而皆准的真理给建议一哈？ -Cathy_Bay- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/27/2010 postreply 20:47:04

• 既来之则安之，别想得太多 -我边走边问- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/27/2010 postreply 21:20:35

• 土哥，您哪是琼瑶小说看得没人老胡多。人正解是：聚也兮兮，散也依依。。。 -veggiedoggie- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/28/2010 postreply 10:24:41

• 古人的出处是项羽曾在《垓下歌》这样写，又有“聚兮离兮奈若何,不如归去” -眼冒金星- ♂ (125 bytes) () 12/28/2010 postreply 10:57:46

• 人家是“聚兮离兮奈若何,不如裸奔” -大写2- ♂ (0 bytes) () 12/28/2010 postreply 11:02:44

• 俺move on了，难免压力大一阵子，但俺打心里高兴啊。 -驴驴- ♀ (430 bytes) () 12/27/2010 postreply 19:31:34

• Thanks. Happy New Year!! -Cathy_Bay- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/27/2010 postreply 20:23:50

• 俺觉得找个能得到最管事的人青睐的位置很重要，其他的过去以后都可忽略。。。 -喜欢春天的嫩绿- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/28/2010 postreply 03:18:39

• very good point thank you! -Cathy_Bay- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/28/2010 postreply 04:12:51