工作和感情的困惑

I don't know where I should post this. 我非常困惑，因为我把感情和工作混在一起。我 觉得一团糟。

我非常讨厌我老板的工作方法，但是我很喜欢他. I will quit a while a ago if it is just a pure working relationship. I take work very seriously and can not stand the way he works.
There were so many times that I was so mad and came to his office to talk with him. However, when I looked into his eyes, I lost myself and couldn't focus on anything after I returned to my desk. Because of this, I sent him emails couple times about the problem of work and it made the working relationship even worse. Which boss would like to see a subordinate's email that was complaining about him? We are both married and have kids so it is totally impossible. I am not a young girl and I haven't had this type of feeling to any guys in 10 years. I don't know what is wrong with me. He is in my mind all the time even weekends. Maybe I spend most of my day with him instead of my hu*****and. He maybe noticed. I can feel something from his eyes or maybe I just 自做多情。工作是容易改的，感情却是难以控制的。当你爱上一个不该爱的人时，是很难出来的。　谁也帮不了你。
I work in a really demanding industry and I have a lot of experiences. If I want to change job, I don't even need to look. All my old bosses asked to come back and I like to work with them (they are all women) a lot. I just don't want to leave because of him even I really hate to work with him.

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• 建议换工作。 -sigma- ♂ (43 bytes) () 03/16/2007 postreply 18:53:16

• What are his problems? -Eveline- ♀ (41 bytes) () 03/16/2007 postreply 19:57:40

• 回复：What are his problems? -Tanya06- ♂ (463 bytes) () 03/16/2007 postreply 20:18:38

• 回复：回复：What are his problems? -Eveline- ♀ (205 bytes) () 03/16/2007 postreply 20:59:04

• 回复：回复：回复：What are his problems? -Tanya06- ♂ (105 bytes) () 03/16/2007 postreply 21:01:41

• Grow up -Eveline- ♀ (195 bytes) () 03/16/2007 postreply 21:13:45

• not only you but also herself -布衣之才- ♂ (208 bytes) () 03/16/2007 postreply 21:04:23

• 立刻换工作，否则你会越陷越深，伤害就越大。 -女球迷- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/16/2007 postreply 20:12:08

• 回复：立刻换工作，否则你会越陷越深，伤害就越大。 -Tanya06- ♂ (115 bytes) () 03/16/2007 postreply 20:21:09

• 回复：回复：立刻换工作，否则你会越陷越深，伤害就越大。 -chilily- ♀ (468 bytes) () 03/17/2007 postreply 06:33:19

• 回复：回复：回复：立刻换工作，否则你会越陷越深，伤害就越大。 -Tanya06- ♂ (273 bytes) () 03/17/2007 postreply 15:16:10

• 远离诱惑是唯一的办法。 -布衣之才- ♂ (82 bytes) () 03/16/2007 postreply 20:19:11

• actually you do not need advice from here. -caddy- ♀ (152 bytes) () 03/17/2007 postreply 08:13:10

• 回复：工作和感情的困惑 -现实的浪漫- ♀ (400 bytes) () 03/17/2007 postreply 08:54:25

• 你只是为了一双猫眼难受! 换工作,对老公也就无愧. -wuno- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/17/2007 postreply 09:32:36